31K likes, 399 comments - Gael Monfils (@iamgaelmonfils) on Instagram: "Hello everybody, I hope you all are doing well. I would rather change our plans than have him resent me for making him choose me over his friends.
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You might feel hurt and you might start to feel insecure.
I've had my boyfriend cancel plans with me to go on a trip with his friends before, and it didn't make me happy, but I knew that he needed time with them too.
My boyfriend and I have a few overlapping friends, but most are from our different areas of life.
You encouraged him.
Be open and sensitive to your spouse’s need for friends.
However, you also need to make sure he is communicating with you and treating you fairly.
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TikTok video from L (@yagirllilyy): "when your boyfriend wants to spend time w the boys get yourself something nice #money #boyfriend #payday #foryoupage #foryou #fyp".
TL;DR: My boyfriend went from spending most of his time with me to most of his time with his friends because “he’s bored of what we do.
You might feel hurt and you might start to feel insecure.
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My girlfriend of 4 years wants me to spend Christmas with her.
He may be trying to prove to himself that he can balance all of.
Talk to your boyfriend before you are introduced to his guy friend.
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